Sunday, November 9, 2025

Half mirror, Half magnifying glass: My review of “The Girlfriend”

There is a scene in Rahul Ravindran’s “The Girlfriend” where two women (Rashmika Mandanna and Rohini) are positioned behind the front door of a house.  The door looks framed like the bars of a prison.  The patriarchal attitude in that house seemed to have seamlessly passed on from one generation to the next, with the broad strokes intact, the difference being only in the little details.  We see two women, one a victim who has accepted it with a quiet resignation and one who has just had an epiphany on what her life might turn out to be.  Moments later, part of the door opens, and one woman is no longer behind bars, so to say.  This sequence encapsulates all that is surefooted about this film.  Rahul’s lines are thought provoking.  The actors’ silences are loaded with meaning.  The editing by Chota K Prasad is sharp - the consecutive shots of the two women in a similar looking saree evoked a rapturous response in the theater where I watched the film.  DOP Krishnan Vasant’s focus shifts are unobtrusive yet precise.  In short, everything comes together, not just in this scene but also the film. 

“The Girlfriend” is the tale of Bhooma, a girl whose journey of self-realization leads to her discovering a version of herself that she didn’t know existed.  When we first see her, she has just joined an MA English Literature course.  When the Professor (an endearingly dignified Rahul) asks her for her motivation to join the course, she speaks of her aspiration to write a book that would inspire children the way other authors inspired her in her childhood.  Right off the bat, the earnestness endears us to this character and pulls us into her world.  We gradually see that she is, as soft as she may seem on the outside, filled with a quiet but steely resolve to maximize her ability.  A relationship with a man-child (a supremely convincing Dheekshith Shetty) turns around her world topsy-turvy.  The film proceeds to take us on a ride into her world and her psyche in the most intimate, intricate manner possible.  Rashmika holds this film together with an incandescent performance that is seen to be believed.  After her stupendous work in “Dear Comrade”, this is arguably her most nuanced, layered and searing performance in a role that is superbly written.

Rahul is not only a sensitive, sensible and progressive writer but also one who has a tremendous handle on the craft of filmmaking that allows him to bring his vision to screen fully.  It manifests itself not just in the way he has collaborated with his superlative technical team or his music director. (Hesham Abdul Wahab’s score add tremendous depth to the quieter moments.)  It is also evident in the delicious little details, choices and observations.  For instance, we see a young girl in a crouched position.  And then we cut to the adult version with a near identical pose.  Another example is the tentative way Rashmika holds her backpack in front as if to guard herself.  Or how she cannot bring herself to fully say, “boyfriend” in response to being called, “girlfriend.”  Even a dupatta gets its own little arc and payoff in a series of shots spread across the film.  If the sharp, thought-provoking dialogues make us hold a mirror to ourselves and our problematic notions of patriarchy and male chauvinism, the exquisite detailing is a magnifying glass into the world of the titular character.

Another aspect of Rahul’s writing that deserves approbation is the shaping of the supporting characters, even the minor ones.  The dignity with which Bhooma treats a guy who had feelings for her is lovely, given how rarely we see it on screen.  I loved the way she delivered the line, “you are such a nice guy, ra.”  I also admired the fact that the Durga character (a wonderful Anu Emmanuel) befriends Bhooma after noticing her earnestness, despite her own prior jealousy.  Her confession later is a standout scene.  I wished though that Rahul had fleshed out their friendship a little more.  She is largely missing in the second half except for the climactic portions.  Rahul, as the Professor, has some of the film’s best lines at the most opportune moments.  There is always a risk of editorializing when a character voices out the core themes of a film but Rahul walks the tightrope walk expertly.

As engaging, moving and motivating as “The Girlfriend” is, it is also an important film.  We have had scores of films where toxic masculinity is glorified and obsessive behavior is characterized as some sort of a virtue and a sign of deep, undying love.  Without moralizing or sermonizing, Rahul lets his story organically set right all that is wrong with portrayal of woman-man relationships in films.  In the process, he and his cast and crew give us an intense, memorable film.

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